I have mentioned before in this blog that I teach at a local
college. For many years I gave an
assignment called the Gratitude Inventory (I still use it occasionally when
someone needs some extra credit). The
assignment was to “Make a list of 20
things for which you are grateful. Think
about your family, friends, and talents as topics of gratitude. Look at your life. Respond to something in the news that you are
grateful happened or didn’t happen to you.
Gratitude does not have to be something dramatic and life
changing. You might just be grateful
that it is Friday”.
Good idea, right? But
how does this help your health? For one
thing studies show that if you are consistently grateful for the things in your
life, you see your life as something to take care of and so you develop habits
which provide good health. Studies also
show that feeling thankful helps us cope with stress better. All the positive feelings that gratitude
brings boosts our immune system so we are less likely to get sick.
In situations like Covid 19 or any other tragedy, expressing
gratitude develops a sense of community and belonging and that also helps when
experiencing stress. Gratitude also gives a sense of empathy toward
others. You know what other people are
going through so you are more likely to connect with other people. This lessons your loneliness.
It is also hard to be unhappy when thinking of positive
thoughts. Positivity and optimism has
also been shown to enhance your health. People
who express positive thoughts about a surgery for example tend to have a
speedier recovery than those expressing negative thoughts or no thought at all
about the surgery.
And have you ever noticed how when you are happy time seems
to fly by. That is definitely needed now
when we face days or maybe weeks of social distancing.
What is great about expressing gratitude is you don’t need
any special time or tool to do it. You
can express gratitude in your mind or sharing it with others. I post a daily gratitude list of 5 things
each day on my personal Facebook page.
It makes me look for the good that happened that day and I am told it
helps my Facebook Friends be reminded of what they are grateful for.
So if you haven’t already, start thinking of the things that
you are thankful is happening to you or just in your life. And especially do it when you begin to feel
sad or that the situation feels hopeless.
It won’t fix everything but it will help you feel better.
(PS- Just so you know I wrote this as much a reminder to me
to keep doing my gratitude lists as to tell you about gratitude.)
©2020 Cheryl Fillion
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